Back to the original poster-- I just read about your horrible session with the new T, no wonder you're spinning.
Can your retiring T refer you to someone she knows would be more suited to help you with your issues? I also think it would be in your best interest to tell your T what happened.
I hope you can convince Jeremi and everyone else that what she said was absolutely not true and totally unprofessional.
I hope things settle down for you soon, stormyangels.