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Originally Posted by nottrustin
Curiosity got to me and in a way it seems like it could be a good experience. I had visions of people laying in bed hugging. whole that can happen if that is what a client wants. It could also mean dancing or sitting on a couch where your jeans is on their shoulder and their arm is around you. The places I saw required at least a tank top and shorts worn by both parties..
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I can see how that would be a good experience. I think it's really interesting how different it is for everyone who is a survivor of abuse, and how they want to be touched or not and who they would be comfortable with.
I don't think there is anything wrong with paying for touch, but I understand it would not be for everyone. If my T did touch with me then I suppose I am paying for emotional and physical contact and that's ok. He would never initiate physical contact with me because of my past, but it is so hard to ask.