My T would not go looking for me... however, he is good friends with the family across the street from me. Even looking at my address on the paperwork he didn’t put it together. So he knows exactly where I live and has driven by my house.
Other stuff? Eh, he has a very full life outside of work and a ton of other things to do than spend more time on me than what I already ask for (he gives very generously to me out of his personal time to reply to emails and return emergency calls).