I had been doing so well and BAM! just as I was afraid of something happens to spoil it. My daughter-in-law hit her head Sunday am and she went to doc today. He said one pupil was dilated so my son took her to the ER for x-rays, Neither one works and no job in site and have 3 kids. Now, he is taking her and dropping her off then coming home to wait for kids to get off bus. The 2 yr old is a terror and I end of telling him No and popping his hands all the time. When I'm nice he calls me "gran gran" and when I have to punish it is "janet" My daughter-in-law has been to the ER more times than I can count on my hands. She loves pills and is always asking me for mine. I tell her no but i'm going to have to hide them. Why is this happening? My son said he is starting to feel like his Dad when I got sick. That hurt me very badly because that is the excuse his Dad used to divorce me. He told me not to get angry and I didn't. I just cried and cried. It's like a circle turning around and around all the time. I can never get away, I want to run and hide. But where can I go? I'm stuck her to care for my Mom and be here for my son. I do have kindness and sympathy for them but where do I come in and how do I cope>......pj56....

"two things a man should never be angry at: what he can help, and what he cannot help" Thomas Fuller