Thank you for the links and reading my lengthy post

I recognise a lot of these traits, but the obsession of what people will think of her is extremely prominent. Also I think she has raised me to always look for her approval to an extreme level. It’s affected so much of me and I want rid of this approval feeling I always seek from her, as quite honestly what gets her approval makes me unhappy.

Really doing my head in at the moment, as I now notice so much. Long way to go but at least it’s now starting