I feel it’s like a leap of faith? You have to learn to let go a bit, because risk is an inherent part of relationships, as my sister in law pointed out to me when I was with my last boyfriend (from which I learned I was not emotionally healthy enough to date, nowhere even close! I’m happy being single, but I’d still like to have therapy anyway because I’ve realised so many things from my past are holding me back. If I ever met someone I felt I could be with down the line, I’d then also be more prepared to take the chance, as well).