Before I begin I want to warn that there will be very adult content in this post.

So for about 2 weeks my boyfriend and I have been trying to work through some communication problems. A week ago. He left.....in really want to work things out, and I was here talking all night one night because no couldn't sleep with everything going on....tokdnhim we'd talk the next day rather than that morning. We'll that morning, I gues I musta been delerioius because I answeresd my house door in my bath robe... I guess expecting it to be him.....it wasn't! It was an ex! H forced mebto have sex with him. I was so emotional ally distraught that when my boyfriend came back initially lied telling him nothing happened. Of course he figured out that it had and now we are fight ing agian. We both love each other sommuch, but right now, he won't talk to me... Help! My depression is slipping ina downward spiral as I struggle with this.

At the same time. I struggle. I am faced with a possibility of being pregnant, it is very difacult to say for sure as e lost a baby in June and I have not yet resumed menstrual cycles.

Any words of wisdom or thoughts on how I can approach the situation wouldnbe appreciated.

He is against therapy.

Thanks so much
Dar