(((((((((((( agony ))))))))))))))))

Threats can be so hard to hear and deal with. In most states, I don't think that any changes can be made to anything until it is agreed upon by both parties or the judge in the case makes a decision about the community property and insurance for that matter.

I agree with sunrise...go sleep on the couch and speak to your attorney about how and when to get your husband out of the house.

The hardest thing through all of this will be your ability to not engage in bickering back and forth. It really gets you nowhere fast and makes things so much more anxious. I know how hard it is not to respond when he knows how to push your buttons. Lock them up tight girl.....you have the power to not react and not respond to his insults and crap. It will make him wonder what you are thinking and what you are up to.....not a bad thing eh? LOL

Wishing you well....and hope you find ways of dealing that are more helpful to you!


sabby