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Originally Posted by JoeM83
I'm just trying to figure out if this is a reasonable request, or is she searching for a rationale to end the marriage. I love her very much, so I don't want this to happen, but at the same time, I don't want to fight this if it is inevitable. Thanks in advance for your advice.
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You CAN change your behavior and choice in words, even in the heat of the moment. It's possible and achievable.
My husband used to name call in fights, and the last time he did it, he called me a B. At that point, I had it and told him I am divorcing him. I will not tolerate name calling, or any other form of abuse.
So, yes, it's very reasonable of your wife to say she may leave you if the name calling continues. I would take this very seriously and work on changing your behavior. You may even consider seeing a therapist if you feel you cannot control yourself in the heat of an argument or disagreement.