I have been married for four years and we have two very young children. I haven’t been happy in almost two years and want a divorce. We both have our issues but he seems to think mine cancel his out. I haven’t felt like I could breath due yo the toxicity of our relationship for about a year. He refuses to even consider a divorce - he’d rather us and our children be miserable And drown in our fight than try to be happy alone and coparent. Anyone else have a similar situation or advice?