Dear Faechild,

I read your post. The whole situation you describe must be very draining and demoralizing for you. Even after reflection, I am unable to come up with anything helpful. I would not know what I would do if I was in your place. So very, very sorry I could not be helpful to you in this. Hopefully many others will see your post and respond to it with really practical and helpful ideas. My heart goes out to you!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen