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Old Sep 29, 2020, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty View Post
Although I've been with current T for two years now and no transference whatsoever. She's straight. I'm still asexual. No transference, at least none that I am aware of.
Have you tried leaving her yet? Sometimes you do not see their transference until you can no longer go back and see them.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.