I would not work with a male therapist. I have had one in the past and the work was ok, but without any notable care or closeness due to my defenses and his approach. I don't trust men and I consider them to be limited. I really value sisterhood and female solidarity. My relationship with my current therapist can be troubled and difficult, but despite this, we can also share a profound connection. I think our shared experience of being a woman contributes to this. I would not allow a man access to my internal world.