I do not live in the USA. I completely relate to it being extremely... difficult.. to find a professional who listens or wants to help. I posted this on another forum and someone replied telling me to ........... this is similar to what the professionals tell me. (basically .....

) (usually they simply prescribe meds which I'm allergic to). You're not alone. I feel that the professionals have intentionally made me feel uncomfortable, so I do not speak to them again.
I hope you find a good professional, they are out there somewhere.