My mother is upset with me. She says I help others too much and don't help her. She forgets how much I did for her when she had her surgery and many other things.

She says that she's completely alone and God forbid she would have to depend on me for anything. She seems to have developed a very selective memory.

So now we're not on speaking terms. Of course the ball is in my court to apologize. For what I don't know. But nothing's going to happen until I say I'm sorry. I don't see that happening anytime soon.