Hey Ziggy!! Try to look at it this way......

As adults, we are expected to find a solution to a problem when it hits. If this health issues is a problem, than as an adult, we are expected to find a solution to it and the solution is to seek advice of those who can best treat the challenge.

As an adult, you are not being weak, you are being smart. To see a problem developing and do nothing about it....that is more of a weakness.

Please try to find teh solutions and praise yourself for teh wsie decisions. It take s a smart person to do so. I know you are smart Ziggy. And you are special and important to us all.