I guess my fear maybe is, if she does, indeed, have this issue, that were it to somehow end up in official, legal channels, here in this supposedly progressive mecca, the truth, the facts, the history, is that some prosecutors criminilize mental illness due to lack of science knowhow. So, here, some upstart, future mayor could snag this, label this selfless, sweet, outstanding mommy who literally saved my life as taking advantage of a bipolar person, and prosecute. Ridiculous. Totally immoral and nonfactual. She is an angel with her own untreated illness, maybe. Our sweet, smart, loving daughter, who spent years without her dad due to bp 1 now goes into foster care? That is good for whom? Who wishes that outcome? Noone. Noone. There is zero intent to harm any human here. It is all mental illness with tricky, potential legal potholes. And, also factually, on paper, there is enough money for everyone.Cannot happen. So, just need help figgering out how to lovingly approach her with help, so we and kids do not all end up with a judge putting me in the state hospital again due to incompetence. I am totally competent to live indepedently with help and support. No problem at all. So is she. No pdoc of truth and ethics would ever disagree with that. Ever. Thanks!