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Originally Posted by nottrustin
The last part would totally have turned me off. He could have said I appreciate your questions but I would rather discuss them in person rather than over email. He handled it poorly.
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Yes, I agree. His boundaries were not "compromised" by you asking a question. AND he could have chosen to decline to answer in a much nicer way than he did. This is not somebody who is sturdy enough to do hard work, so you are wise to keep looking, especially if you have attachment trauma in your past.