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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Every guy I've known though wants to impress their date. What is MOST impressive is how he treats his date, how he treats the waiter at dinner and how his manners are, in my opinion. NOT what he does for a living, and nothing big. Just how does he treat ME and how does he treat other people.
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I'm female and I completely agree with this. I was engaged to someone who was highly intelligent, interesting, great job prospects.... but after 2 years his darker side was... something I needed to get away from. I would not have wanted to continue this relationship. In fact, I stayed too long.
(To the OP) I think that if you work with your therapist on this, hopefully nobody will get hurt. I think you have insight that some do not...Thanks for sharing.