Good job! I am proud of you! You probably just care alot about your family members and don't want to be hurt by them. It's hard being a people pleaser. Sometimes you feel like if you take care of yourself instead of others, it's not immediately satisfying so what's the point? It takes time and practice to put your own needs first. It doesn't feel natural. Only after making it a habit does it start to really feel good inside.

Again, you are very brave for moving forward like this! Keep it up!!