I said to someone in a chat room (a little while ago) that I am a ''good'' bear. I do not remember the context. Their reply was that if I think I am good, I probably am not. What I was meaning is that I try to respect others. And people who know me well think I am mostly ''good''....However nobody is perfect. I find some people to be a puzzle. I am working on healthy boundaries. This was not a skill I learnt as a cub.

I am worried about a good friend who has some very scary medical stuff

I'm still worried about my fang. It hurt a bit last night, I had hoped that posting would not ''jinx'' something. I wonder if I ''imagined'' it.. I hope so. I put up with.... something.. for a long time as I did not want a root canal. (the dentist had given me 3 options, root canal, leave it, or take the tooth out, which he discouraged) Probably I made a ''bad decision''. I have had extreme consequences for some of my ''bad decisions''... which didn't seem all that ''bad'' at the time. Some of them were extremely small. I do not think I am a mistake..