We talked about it further and he says to take my time in finding the right job. He does have a tendency though to think of himself first and of his needs first, which is aggravating. I always take him into consideration with everything I do. At the same time, I understand his aggravations at his job and wanting out ASAP. I do get it. I've been in those shoes and it's a terrible way to feel all the time. It's sheer misery.