Lec - yes i keep up with all the hoarding reading. But on my kindle now!

Re the t relationship - ive said, "i love you so much!" to my t also, as LT has. But for me, saying that was more of an end point, like what you say after thanksgiving dinner. Thankful for the harvest, and now you have the resources to make it thru the lean times. You dont sit there and demand more, or whine that its over. You bask in the afterglow. I remember sitting there telling him, you dont have to do anything, this is all me, im happy, i have it, youre there, im here.

Now when i watch tv, i can understand peoples feelings better. I mean, i always understood the b.s., but i never understood the soft stuff. I can almost understand it now. I can almost understand the appeal of a spa-like bathroom, for example. Almost! With room for me.