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I think a lot of times when it involves families we think we should put up with more than we actually should. In fact our family is who we should put up with toxicity the least! Other family members then try to guilt us into staying in the toxic relationship because of their own issues. Remember it is your mothers issues it is not your issues. I’m guessing you’ve had discussions in arguments with your sister before about all of this. With that in mind I would suggest you give her a final ultimatum.
No more of the toxic behavior nastiness and childishness. Tell her if she continues to do that you will no longer take her calls, communicate with her, social media anything with her, or have any sort of relationship with her ever again. Make sure she understands the seriousness of this she may not and she may continue right then in there with her toxic behavior but is important to state exactly what you were looking for. The minute she reverts back to that behavior tell her that you warned her, that you told her how you wanted to be treated, and that she wasn’t treating you that way, and then tell her this is the last time you will speak to her. I know it’s not easy to book the trend with your sister and family members. But it is your mental health and your very soul that is being harmed. And don’t let anyone tell you differently. It’s very hard to let go of family members but imagine the peace you will have when you do.
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