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Old Oct 09, 2020, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
No I don’t agree. I don’t need a man to give me a show or do acting and I don’t do any either. Just be yourself and let the cards fall where they may. Things either work out or they don’t.

For example I am direct and blunt, sometimes it’s a problem but that’s who I am. I am not going to be subdued and mellow on my first date for a man to discover later that’s not who I am. He either likes me or he doesn’t. I am not acting. I’d rather be alone than acting.

As about you acting, women often fall for men who act and pretend and by the time they realize his true nature they are too deep in. So I don’t think it’s fair to act just to get a woman. She’ll figure it out eventually and won’t stick around. Be yourself. If being yourself is not suitable at the moment then do not date now.
@divine1966 Good post. I'd rather be me than act as if I'm someone I'm not too. They either like me or they don't
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