Thanks BethRags

I haven't experienced withdrawal symptoms except for probably my censor isn't working as well as usual today. In fact almost certainly it isn't Grrrrrr. I deleted some of the messages I didn't ''like'' but I can't delete a PM. Sometimes I don't like waiting and wondering what I have said ''wrong''... anyway I have to log out so I'll keep wondering. I usually keep my censor on for PMs and posts. But that limits authentic communication so it's a dilemma (of course the person I PMd might not even be online or might have more urgent mail. I also never call anyone irl if I'm in crisis as it always makes things worse. Grrrrr