He tries

I'm ''too much'' for most people. He also needs a lot of alone time, and it's not me he is wanting to escape from, he doesn't like talking much to anyone. I told a relative that and they just said ''all men are like that''.... NO. I have known others who are not ''like that''.... but they were also abusers (my ex fiasco for example)

I wonder why I attract so many abusers?