I don't understand how a person can have constant issues with everyone they meet, yet cannot see that it's not the other person. I can accept if they have issue with a few people...but with everyone they meet is a bit much to swallow.
Its like The boy who cried wolf.

If I wrote the same thing over and over again- constantly blaming- never taking responsibility for your actions I would be self conscience of what people thought... and worried that I would be showing a pattern of behaviour that others could see, and make judgement- right or wrong.
This seems to be the furthest from their thinking. Which I has me asking this question.

I have AvPD so I tend to take responsibility for everything I say and do and look at everything under a microscope...so when I see a person constantly blaming others always having the same issues time and time again it confuses me to why they cant see it and to their way of thinking?

Sorry about the long post, trying to explain myself can be a difficult sometimes when trying to be sensitive to others.