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Or that I wouldn't be able to find another T who'd allow email. But maybe with the right T, I'd have less of a need for those things? Or maybe I could find a T who does email (or phone or text) but doesn't also tell their client that they'd rather not do it...
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I'm wondering why email is so important. I mean, obviously you like to write a lot, and it's good to get the thoughts out on paper/screen/etc, and it's good to feel like somebody's listening. But it also seems to be the source of a lot of stress and anxiety (is he going to write back, why hasn't he written yet, how long is his answer, is it adequate, did he want to write or was it a chore etc. etc.) and misunderstandings. Can't help but think it might be better to just talk in session and avoid a bunch of unnecessary complications.