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Old Oct 11, 2020, 12:59 PM
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You are most certainly great and you express yourself well.

One thing could be that people don’t read long threads. Or start reading and then be like “forget it.”

Or they think it’s more like a vent and don’t know what to respond.

And the third reason, and that’s the one that would mostly stop me, you’ll make a thread and appear to ask questions or express something of substance. People reply, but then you never ever go back to that thread. Or you don’t go on there for a very long time. So if people reply to your thread, they might feel pointless as you never go back to check. It feels that you aren’t interested in replies, so next time no one replies or the most they’ll send a hug. I know it happened to me before. I’d make a long detailed reply with specific knowledge of the matter and I never get any acknowledgement so I think I wasted 15 minutes typing and caused arthritis in my hand and OP didn’t bother reading or couldn’t care less
Hugs from:
sarahsweets
Thanks for this!
Discombobulated, Fuzzybear, KBMK, Quietmind 2, sarahsweets