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I write replies to peoples post all the time and right before I hit post.....I delete it. I am sure it did it to one of yours. I just feel my reply really has nothing to add or it will illicit an a triggering response. Also if someone’s post is way to long and wordy I just do not have enough mental energy to read it and follow along. Not sure if you have really long post or not but I can tell you I did not read this entire post.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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