Yes! My T would never answer things I asked about him. He would say.. 'I answer some personal questions from clients, but I'm curious why you want to know.....' etc.

This made me never ask him anything. We followed each other on social media and I felt like he put more of his personal self there than in our sessions. Then one day he deleted his account, and I went crazy saying how it had been the only way I knew anything personal about him, how could he delete it!

Then he told me, I could ask him anything and connect in therapy sessions. I told him I couldn't, as he'd always refused to answer my questions before. He seemed surprised, like he'd forgotten I used to ask questions at the beginning. Now he's much more open.