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would somebody like to tell me to grow-up coz now he's out of the way things should be calming down and it's not.

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It's understandable that you don't understand that this statement doesn't apply to PTSD, as the disorder is a tough one to understand.

It has nothing to do with growing up, nor with any thought of how things "should" be.

It's a DISORDER... if it responded like usual emotions, (dissipates after the event) it wouldn't be a DISORDER.