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Old Oct 13, 2020, 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
And the third reason, and that’s the one that would mostly stop me, you’ll make a thread and appear to ask questions or express something of substance. People reply, but then you never ever go back to that thread. Or you don’t go on there for a very long time. So if people reply to your thread, they might feel pointless as you never go back to check. It feels that you aren’t interested in replies, so next time no one replies or the most they’ll send a hug. I know it happened to me before. I’d make a long detailed reply with specific knowledge of the matter and I never get any acknowledgement so I think I wasted 15 minutes typing and caused arthritis in my hand and OP didn’t bother reading or couldn’t care less
Thanks for being so honest @divine1966. I asked for honesty and I am getting it. You and everyone else is so right. I posted this thread in I guess a desperation kind of mood. I have no right to say these things if that has been my track record. I think from now on if I make a thread I will ask people to use the mention function. Sometimes I just click "new threads" and dont see mine pop up because like you said, it gets buried because I didnt go back to it. I also am forgetful. And now I am starting to see my part in all of this.
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