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Oct 13, 2020, 06:32 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Thanks for your honesty @HaveHope I really try and take constructive criticism and honesty the best I can. I do not argue or defend myself when the person is right.
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I do think that the thicker and longer posts are not only much harder to read, but generally will illicit fewer replies because most people won't read all the way through. I admit that I skimmed through this one because it is very thick and long.
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I thought about that and was hoping my paragraph breaks might help. On another forum I belong to the mods ask for breaks in long posts. I guess I have to try harder to be more succint.
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I know you also have a lengthy post in the relationship forum that received two replies, including my own. I do agree that you could return to your thread more. I wondered why you hadn't returned to that thread, and why you hadn't responded to my post. When I reply on someone's thread, I give it great consideration and thought while writing. I like it when the thread owner takes the time to reply, and then I will likely return to that thread and respond more.
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Right again and I am only now realizing it, I am on PC everyday and try to respond to a lot of people's threads but not remembering my own and being considerate enough to return is really sh*tty. I think I am going to ask people to use the mention function for me. This isnt an excuse but my ADHD sometimes makes me forget or overlook these things of my own and get focused on others' posts. Or something is a problem at the moment and becomes consuming and keeps me off and when I return I've forgotten.
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I do not know if that's your general MO - to post threads and then not return to them much, but if that's correct across the board, then perhaps returning to your threads and replying to individual posts more frequently would help.
OMG! I hope it doesn't seem like my MO.
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And I hope what I am writing is not received poorly. Just trying to be objective and give some objective thoughts.
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No, i am really hearing you and I want to validate what you are saying.
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