What I try and do with my own longer posts is make much shorter paragraphs - of just a few sentences each. This is what is suggested for writing articles on the web - to make longer content easier to read and digest.

What's also nice is when the OP replies to you when you've put great thought into a post for them. I have a hard time sometimes and can take it personally when the OP doesn't acknowledge my post and only just replies to one out of several posts. I am working on trying not to take offense.

In my own threads, I try to acknowledge everyone's posts in one way or another. If I cannot reply to every single post, then I try to give hugs and thanks.

There's another suggestion for you on your own threads - to acknowledge each person's post with a hugs or a thanks.