Hey Fuzzy, Wild Coyote shared something helpful as it is important that we not isolate. Sharing with others and receiving feedback is an important aspect of self analysis and growth.
I wholeheartedly agree with Soupe as well. Feedback from others can be a hinderence when we lose ourselves in it and adopt the judgments of others as our own. You are a lovely person with so much to offer and I agree learning to give less 'F's about what others think would be a healthy shift for you.
It is all about balance. We cannot be so lost in our little worlds that we lose the ability to see how we are perceived and we cannot be so hyper aware that we get lost in the perceptions of others.
We must trust our hearts and our good intent and try not to worry too much about how it affects others. If we are focused on living right and honoring ourselves, we in turn honor others. That is not to say that we won't hurt others from time to time. We will. However, if we hold love and hope for resolution, conflicts work themselves out. Others can see our intent and forgive. You're not malicious and you're a good person. Trust in that and focus on building what you want for yourself. Be open to feedback, but remember... You are the driver of your life. Letting others take the wheel will never fully get you where you want to go.
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