Thanks Soupe du jour and fern

I agree with both of you (including about learning to give less F's about what others think especially those who don't get me and don't even try) Papa bear doesn't give an F about what others think, he passes as ''normal'' though more than I do, not that I aspire to being ''normal'' (also he is usually not sociable outside work as I may have mentioned before) He likes the TV in the evenings and I do not. He has siblings who he doesn't talk to very often (although they care about each other.. unlike my half ''brother'' who is an A hole. We invited him here several times and he simply did not turn up... A while ago now. I've lost his address..)

Papa bear wasn't able to finish his supper (salmon) but felt a bit better later on and we had chocolate pudding and ice cream He is now asleep I tried to explain a situation or two to him, I must remember not to try that during Feeding Time in the evenings