I've experienced this as well. How having ******** care is almost worse than having no care at all. Grrrrrrrr. So yeah I have often felt very disappointed, let down, and often confused by their inability to comprehend... And, at times, very hurt by their callousness (3 of them or even more..)..

I'm sorry too, to those who have not found a good pdoc (or T). I've been told they are out there. I read a book by Peter Lomas years ago. imo he is a model of a ''good professional''.. (he passed away in 2010 though I think)