I do understand that it would be reasonable and nice if he helped you financially.

But sometimes there is a difference between what we expect from a relationship and what relationship really is. In those cases relationship just isn’t right for us. In my opinion this relationship is not right because you expect something from a person who isn’t willing to give it. He just isn’t that person for you. The reality is he isn’t willing to help you. I understand what you are saying about feeling that he has to help you. .

As about not supporting other people. I am just being realistic. Based on my experience people usually aren’t interested in doing so. Giving someone a bit of money or buying them food and necessities is one thing, giving 25k is something very different. Even if people are very wealthy.

I am not saying it wouldn’t be nice if he gave that money. But what we want and what really happens doesn’t always match. When it doesn’t match, we have to move on because it’s just too stressful to hope for things that aren’t going to happen. You can’t get water out of a stone, so to speak

No clue why he gave that woman money. How does he explain it?