I’m kind of annoyed because I asked my mom for something and she said “oh your so helpless sometimes” it really hurt. I still can’t bend down like that. I texted her about it and she said she was joking. But this is one of the reasons people get into post op depression. They think they are being a burden on people. I would never say that to her at all if she asked for my help let alone if she had surgery 9 days ago.