I am completely fine with your posts but often I don't have ideas to help. I acknowledge and admire you as being knowledgeable and being very honest and caring about your daughter in particular. I ask myself what I could I possibly have to say that sarahsweets has not already thought of?

But now in thinking about this I realize that I could perhaps be helpful simply by giving a hug or acknowledging the difficulty of the situation, something along those lines. Perhaps the visible evidence of being heard and cared about would be uplifting for you.