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Originally Posted by divine1966
Are you two planning to marry or live together? Well honestly situation with my husband and me is very different. It’s literally OUR money. Our savings and our bank account. If you two aren’t married and don’t share household and don’t have mutual bills, I think it’s a bit different. I did have serious boyfriend at some point but i did not consider my money to be his. I don’t think he had rights to claim my money was his. It wasn’t his.
Yes people often support disabled family members but they do it if they want to. Some people do and some dont. Your boyfriend doesn’t want to. We can talk about it how we’d like things to be but that’s not how things are in your situation. Yes some men support women financially. Not your boyfriend. So you can either look for a man who will support or hope he’ll change his mind.
You said he might be willing to help. Then you have a chance. He might be willing to help you with money. It won’t hurt to ask
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You said he has 3 millions so he can give it to people. Sure he can. But he doesn’t want to. So that’s the bottom line. You can’t make people do things you think they should be doing. They either do or they don’t.
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I already listed these facts:
- We've been engaged
- We shared household for long years, currently we don't because of my being stuck in a different country atm
And I don't understand why you think you need to explain to me repeatedly like I'm a two-year-old that people want to do things or don't want to do things etc...
I mean I did ask you above: what did you think overall as to what I was looking for here. Did you feel I was just complaining, or wanting to keep hope without taking concrete action, or? It now sounds like you thought that I just wanted to talk about wishful thoughts. ??