I have a few years left living with my parents and wtih my older sister on her own for a few years now, Im in the middle of it all.

my dad is in his 40s and my mom is in her 50s

I have to constantly be stuck in between them-sometimes complaining about each other to me and its slighty disfunctional

they have been together for around 21 years now and both had spouse before they met each other.

my bigest fear is that what unity is still holding them together might collapse or grow very weak when I leave

I'm not going to stop me from living my life-but I grow very worried sometimes

my grandparents on my dads side are getting their in age and when they pass on it will probly only make things worse- at least for my dad

thats basicaly my relationship with my parents and my point of view
-if anyone needs clarity or ask questions go for it