View Single Post
 
Old Oct 15, 2020, 04:39 PM
Have Hope's Avatar
Have Hope Have Hope is offline
Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2017
Location: Eastern, USA
Posts: 9,738
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
I would find it hard to trust someone who kept lying and being secretive. And what with the yelling and defensiveness. So, your fears are understandable.

Despite our personal stories, our partners also give us reason to feel secure or doubtful. Your husband is not giving you reasons to trust him.

Good luck with therapy.
Thanks. There were three instances of dishonesty but it hasn’t been constant or a regular thing. I’m having trouble though trusting him based on the three instances.

We do need therapy.
__________________
"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination"

~4 Non Blondes