Hello,
I have been there, my ex. didn't want a divorce but also did not want to show me respect or love. My divorce was finalized in January and he still tries to discuss why our divorce shouldn't have happened. I can tell you I am a better mom now that I am not surrounded by his toxic attitude. I have also found that living on your own is so much better than being married and lonely. I wish you luck and hope you find a way to start fresh..