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Originally Posted by divine1966
What is wrong with him? He wakes you up in the middle of the night to get some sex from you? Sure he did some stuff too but it sounds like his expectation was that you have to do the same even though it’s middle of the night. And you are woken up. What’s his deal? He sounds immature.
Do you think you consume alcohol to help you deal with his inconsistent behaviors and all this drama? It’s not uncommon. It sounds stressful
I don’t think you not trusting him is just your issue. Whenever I didn't trust someone, I was always right about them: they weren’t trustworthy. I have no trust issues trusting trustworthy people. I suspect you’d trust trustworthy people too. I don’t think he’ll cheat but he doesn’t sound like a person you can rely on in life with 100% certainty. That’s maybe why your gut feelings tell you not to trust him
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He's only done that one other time in the three years we've been together - so it's not frequent at all, but I agree that it annoyed me.
And yes, I've been drinking more lately to help me deal with all the stress as of late. I'm now going to curb it.
I don't know what my gut says - he hasn't been dishonest about anything else. But still, maybe I can never fully trust him based on these three instances. I do not know.
I wish I knew.