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krazibean said:
i'm always hurt and disappointed.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Do you know why? Are you wanting something she is unable to give? I discovered through therapy that I didn't know how to tell people what I needed or to ask for it. Sometimes now, I can tell T what I need. And he can usually provide it (I don't ask for much). But I'm thinking how painful indeed it would be if I told him what I needed and he wouldn't provide it. Is that at all like what is going on with you? Do you ever talk with T about why you are disappointed and hurt?

I like the part about your focusing on you instead of on your T.