Thirty Shades: Advice given that can be accepted or ignored is fine with me.
Advice that is repeatedly repeated if i choose to ignore it, causes much distress.....(Not really advice, at all. More of an order )


Yes! This is something I was just saying, and is a major reason for a falling out I just had with a family member. Some people think that once they give you advice you have to either do what they said, or you have no right to vent to them about your problem ever again. I want to show her this lol.