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Originally Posted by Yzen
I wonder why they don't like you to disagree with them and say hurtful things. Is it because they feel you should believe and agree with everything they say? Maybe it was that way when you were a toddler, but not as an adult.
I hope the rain clears up tomorrow.
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It's complicated and hard to describe accurately. You're right - it's part being protective (both sides) that leads to control. Then, when the other party doesn't listen, the blame comes, and it is out of control, goes back decades of blames etc.
Relationships are complicated.. not only parental, but also marriage, siblings, friendship, business, all types of relationships reflect just how Human we all are.
It's why I feel negative about People sometimes..